Once you get married; especially in this part of the world, people start asking, “how far?”, “What are you waiting for?” This might be a tad bit frustrating; especially if you have been trying for a while and it seems other women are getting pregnant effortlessly. Statistics show that most couples need to make love at least a 100 times before conceiving so don’t give up, keep working at it and try not to worry. Besides, anxiety might only put a spanner in the works. If however you have been at it for a while, you may want to see a medical practitioner to make sure everything is A-okay (see section on Fertility).
Having a baby requires careful thought. Many women have babies without blinking but if you can plan for it, then go for it.